Addiction: What we do in the absence of Real Love Without sufficient Real Love in our lives, the

Prescription Drug Addiction
...Several researches have shown us that, addiction to any drug whether legal or ill-legal, is a brain disease which can be treated efficiently. But similar kind of treatment is not apt for all the individuals who suffer from prescription drug ...
pain and emptiness are intolerable. In order to eliminate or reduce
Drug Abuse Resistance Education
...grade. It aims at discouraging youngsters from using illegal drugs, or getting involved in gangs and other criminal activities. D.A.R.E. was founded in 1983 to wage a war against the growing evils of drug abuse. It has expanded all over ...
these feelings, we re willing to do almost anything.
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...doing everything from huffing chemicals to smoking weed, popping ecstasy, and even injecting heroin. However, with the international development during 2003-2004 of illegal online drug dealing operations, teens are able to order potentially dangerous prescription medications off of the internet ...
This desire to eliminate pain is the key to understanding
Gay and Lesbian Alcohol Addiction: An Epidemic
...AIDS, and you remember that life's not so easy. For many gay and lesbian, staying in the closet can seem the safest way to avoid both rejection and conflict. Unfortunately those that stay in the closet become depressed, angry and ...
the causes of addiction. When we find something that temporarily
Drug Rehab Programs
...duration and some can be residential and others are long term such as marijuana replacement programs. Rehabilitation depends on participation for a sustained period of time. The rehab programs are designed to address the physical aspects of drug addiction and ...
reduces the emptiness and pain of not having enough of that one element
Dual Diagnosis, Drug Addiction, Alcoholism and Their Similarities
...dual diagnosis, they should all be treated simultaneously in a drug rehab, alcohol rehab or dual diagnosis treatment program. Below are the listed similarities: 1. Drug addiction, alcoholism and mental health disorders are physiological diseases with strong genetic and hereditary ...
essential to our emotional health (Real Love), we pursue that temporary source
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of relief that substance, person, feeling,
Drug Addiction Support: Don't Go It Alone
...on the physical and emotional aspects of their addictions. But at the heart of any successful drug addiction program there has to be a source of ongoing drug addiction support to which addicts can turn when their professional treatment had ...
or behavior with great zeal, even desperation, and
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...nicotine is truly the hardest drug habit to kick. (Haas, p.964) Almost one-third of cases of pancreatic carcinoma can be attributed to cigarette smoking. Most lung cancers are caused by cigarette smoking. (Smokers are five to ten times more likely ...
when that desperation leads us to regularly disregard the
Drug Addiction Support: Don't Go It Alone
...on the physical and emotional aspects of their addictions. But at the heart of any successful drug addiction program there has to be a source of ongoing drug addiction support to which addicts can turn when their professional treatment had ...
potentially negative social, psychological, and physical consequences of our pursuit,
Drug Addiction Treatment
...withdrawal are among the most effective treatments for these addictions. Until now, only two drugs--methadone and levo-alpha-acetyl methadol (LAAM ) were available, and only licensed treatment clinics were authorized to dispense them. Many addicts normally avoid opiate treatment programs (OTPs) ...
we have satisfied the definition of addiction.



Everything we use as a substitute for Real Love to temporarily make us feel better in the absence

Prescription Drug Addiction: An Overview
...these drugs use them responsibly, taking the correct dose just until the problem is gone. However, there is a growing trend for people to misuse prescription drugs. Many people use prescription drugs to get high or to feel good. What ...
of what we really need becomes a form of Imitation Love, and all those substitutes fall into one or more of four categories: praise, power, pleasure, and safety.


Praise


In the absence of Real Love, we very much enjoy the acceptance and praise of others, and we re generally willing to do a great deal to earn it. But therein lies the problem. We have to earn praise. We have to do what other people want us to do, so the approval they subsequently give us cannot feel as though it were given unconditionally. In short, the instant we do anything to get other people to like us in any way, we can t feel genuinely loved.


In addition

Opiate Addiction
...dulling the feeling of pain and helplessness. Opiates, when taken, can lead to several adverse effects which can include nausea and vomiting, constipation, dry mouth, drowsiness and miosis. Other less frequent side effects can be experienced such as respiratory depression, ...
to praise being an ineffective substitute for Real Love,
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...of heart disease. It's not even the best predictor--that honor goes to a little known test that looks for elevated levels of C-reactive protein. What is C-reactive protein? C-reactive protein is produced by the body during times of inflammation. Doctors ...
its effects are also annoyingly temporary. We ve all
Recovery From Drug and Alcohol Addiction
...thing for the recovering addict to remember is that their concept of time is a bit warped. Take for instance their using. If you ask an addict or alcoholic if they are currently using because their behavior indicates that may ...
had the experience of working hard to purchase a moment
Which Addiction Treatment Programs Offer Dual Diagnosis Treatment Services
...in days of old. Redesigning addiction treatment and psychiatric services There have been attempts in recent years to address this problem by restructuring and integrating addiction treatment services and psychiatric services. One such attempt is the implementation of specialized dual ...
of acceptance, only to discover that the effects wear off
Hydrocodone Addiction
...benefits, evidence points towards the direction of chronic addiction. Pure hydrocodone belongs to the Schedule II drug category, which simply means that it is controlled and use of the drug is highly restricted. However, there are only a few prescription ...
with astonishing speed. Then we have to earn it again,
Magic of Alternative Alcoholism Treatment for Recovery from Substance Abuse
...of treating specific problems or symptoms. A systematic recovery treatment in a stress-free environment works well for you if you are seeking treatment for your alcoholism. The approach has become more wholesome, more open. Nowadays, the detox centers treat the ...
and again, and again. In fact, the more we rely on
Prescription Drug Addiction Statistics- Drug Abuse Hits Home
...their physical and emotional pain. Drug Abuse Among The Elderly As the Baby Boomer generation enters its retirement years, there are now more Americans over the age of sixty than ever before. Whether or not that is a factor, more ...
praise, the faster the effects wear off.


We also have to work harder and harder for the same amount of praise. When you were four years old, for example, you could simply tie your shoes correctly and be rewarded with Wow, you are so clever. But you have to do a lot more than that to

Drug Addiction Centers - Are They Your Way Back?
...for treatment. The Financial Question If you have already rejected the idea that drug addiction centers are the answer for you because the cost of their treatment puts them beyond your financial reach, it s time to get really honest ...
hear those same words now, don t you? This continual earning of praise is exhausting.


We have also learned that greater quantities of praise are required to give us the same feelings of satisfaction. Where once the slightest nod of approval may have been fulfilling, eventually we require greater displays of acceptance, then applause, then printed notices in the newspaper. Ask most professional performers about their growing and often insatiable need for praise. Eventually, no amount of praise yields satisfaction.


It shouldn t be difficult to see that the pattern we ve described here for praise is exactly the same as for any addictive drug. Let s make that comparison here. Any narcotics addict, for example, knows that when using

Prescription Drug Addiction
...treated efficiently. But similar kind of treatment is not apt for all the individuals who suffer from prescription drug addiction. Prescription drug addiction is not at all different from addiction to some other substances or from alcoholism. However, for medical ...
his drug


the initial effects are exciting.there is a sense of relief or excitement, but the feeling is never one of genuine fulfillment or peace or joy.the effects wear off, and with time they wear off more quickly.


greater and greater quantities are required to achieve the same effect.he doesn t care much about the social,

Prescription Drug Addiction Prevention and Awareness
...a common misconception. Unfortunately that is not always true. Doctor s often get a certain amount of pay for each prescription they write. Although there are definitely some very talented and caring doctors, there are also those that are just ...
physical, and emotional consequences of his drug
Introduction To Cocaine Addiction
...euphria. Like caffiene, coke makes the user feel awake, and energized. Cocaine addict's usually experience a sense of well being and feel 'powerful', combined with restlessness and anxiety. When the effects of cocaine wear off the user will 'crash', become ...
use.


The addictions to praise and drugs share another important characteristic. While people are addicted to either substance, the intoxication and other effects are so distracting that the users

Why I Hate Remedy Research
...it makes her heart tissue pliable and really nice. Now 800 mg is way above the recommended dosage. She doesn t care. I use to take high dosages of vitamin E, but I don t now. Why? Remedy Research said ...
cannot feel the effects of Real Love. They can t feel loved, and that effect alone is deadly.


With the possible exception of the physical

Sex, Love, and Poly-Behavioral Addiction
...concluded that, love may vie for the same real estate in the brain as drug addiction. Early love, rooted as it is in the caudate nucleus, is all about addiction. "It is a drug addiction." "It's certainly got some of ...
withdrawal seen in drug addiction, there is little to no difference
Drug Abuse and Addiction
...a habit-forming substance Drug abuse and addiction is a serious problem that many individuals face today. Although it is not known as to why some people turn to drugs, there are other reasons why some do. Some people turn to ...
between the addiction to drugs and the addiction to praise. It should also be emphasized originally
Drug Addiction Rehab Programs Effectiveness
...a drug, then it doesn't matter if the substance behind that drug is legal or illegal, what you need is a drug addiction rehab. It means that you have a drug addiction, so you must take it seriously and get ...
stated in the new definition of addiction that the addictions
Common Drugs and Their Uses
...medication called Armour Thyroid which is prescribed for the treatment of hypothyroidism. Arthritis is a common illness in today s society; doctors prescribe drugs called non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) for this condition. A common NSAID is Ibuprofen which reduces inflammation, ...
to all other forms of Imitation Love follow the same patterns
The Dangers Of Prescription Drug Abuse And How To Get Help
...up, while others do so in hopes of losing weight, having fun, or simply fitting in. Another reason for the growing trend in prescription drug abuse is the fact that many people mistakenly think these drugs are safe because they ...
as those for drugs and praise, as described above. All addictions to
Drug Addiction Intervention - When You've Had Enough
...for the better--experience, it may be time for you to consider a drug addiction intervention. Drug addiction interventions confront addicts not to heap them with verbal abuse, but to give them a clear look at how badly their lives have ...
praise, power, pleasure, and safety are essentially
Prescription Pain Killer Addiction
...few years. In fact, in 2002, the National Institute on Drug Abuse has revealed that about 3 million teenagers aged 12 to 17 and almost 7 million adults aged from 18 to 25 has used prescription drugs for non-medical uses ...
the same. They have the same characteristics, and in the end, they
Drug Addiction Centers - Are They Your Way Back?
...for treatment. The Financial Question If you have already rejected the idea that drug addiction centers are the answer for you because the cost of their treatment puts them beyond your financial reach, it s time to get really honest ...
re all capable of destroying our lives, because they destroy our ability to
Quit Smoking Drugs - A Challenge That Can't Be Faced Alone
...a rough thing to go through and the most effective way to get passed it is with the help of the closest people to the drug addict. It s a tricky process with different phases and you should know what ...
benefit from the Real Love that is essential to our emotional
The Road Less Travelled ... Three Steps to Overcoming Alcoholism and Drug Addiction ...
...lived for any length of time, you'll know that to be trueJ Yet why do so many of us resist that fact? Forever complaining or moaning rather than accepting and dealing with it, which ironically in doing, allows you to ...
well-being.


In order for people to smile at us, compliment us, and want to spend time with us all signs that they accept or love us we ve learned that we usually have to be talented, beautiful, wealthy, witty, cooperative, grateful, successful, or otherwise worthy of acceptance. That kind of acceptance is conditional, because all the signs of it the smiles and kind words, for example disappear when we make mistakes, inconvenience people, and fail to live up to the expectations of others.


Because

Addictions Recovery Measurement & the Seven Dimensions Model
...alcohol and/ or other drugs or addictive behaviors. 2. Biochemistry the discovery of morphine-like substances called endorphins (runners high, etc.) and the so-called pleasure pathway the mesocorticolimbic dopamine pathway (MCLP). This is the brain center or possible anatomic site underlying ...
the absence of Real Love is painful, however, we re willing to do a lot to earn the approval that temporarily makes us feel good, even if it s conditional. We make ourselves look good physically, for example, with exercise, clothing, makeup, starvation, and plastic surgery, all in the hope that someone will say, You re looking good. We work hard to succeed at school and in our jobs in order to be complimented for our intelligence, creativity, and diligence.


Power


Although it s mostly unintentional, any time we successfully manipulate or control someone, we re enjoying a sensation of power over that person. We use money, authority, sex, flattery, and personal persuasion to influence, control, and even

Alcoholism and Drug Addiction-Change to Recovery
...approach Body, Mind and Spirit people can be healed of alcoholism and drug addiction without relapse and without cravings by healing the underlying causes which precipitate the need to use alcohol or drugs to cope. A holistic approach incorporates life ...
hurt people. When we control someone, we actually feel more connected to him or her in a brief, shallow way. It s not Real Love, but when we control the people around us, we feel less powerless; we feel less of the emptiness and helplessness that are always associated with a lack of Real Love.


Pleasure


When we don t feel unconditionally loved, we often use pleasure food, sex, drugs, shopping, gambling, driving fast, and many forms of entertainment and excitement to feel better temporarily. Certainly there s nothing inherently wrong with pleasure, but when we compulsively seek it, we re using it to fill a deep emptiness, and that pursuit easily becomes an addiction.


Safety


Without sufficient

Prescription Drug Abuse and Pill Withdrawal
...that these can often be signed as routine, rather than consideration being given to the need, and so facilitating prescription drug abuse. If a certain patient begins to request repeats more often, would this be noticed? Theoretically it should, but ...
Real Love, we re already experiencing an insufferable pain, and we ll go to great lengths to keep
Alcoholism and Drug Addiction-Change to Recovery
...approach Body, Mind and Spirit people can be healed of alcoholism and drug addiction without relapse and without cravings by healing the underlying causes which precipitate the need to use alcohol or drugs to cope. A holistic approach incorporates life ...
ourselves safe from anything that might prolong or worsen
Signs of Cocaine Use What are the Signs and Symptoms of Cocaine Use
...and chose cocaine even when their behavior was punished. It was proven that animals must have their access to cocaine limited in order not to take lethal doses. Studies have shown that people addicted to cocaine also behaved very similar. ...
our pain. To minimize painful disapproval, we stay away
Approaches To Drug Addiction Recovery
...those suffering from addiction cannot recover on their own. Drug addiction recovery, in their philosophy, demands that a very personal, painful failing cannot be eradicated until it has been brought into public view. The Twelve Step Program which is the ...
from unfamiliar situations, tasks, and relationships,
Drug Addiction, Alcoholism and Dual Diagnosis in the Gay and Lesbian Community
...in the sample (Saghir, 1970; Lewis, 1982). Approximately 30% of lesbians and gay men are addicted to drugs (Rofes, 1983). The facts show that the homosexual community constitutes a high-risk population with regard to alcoholism, drug addiction and dual diagnosis. ...
and then we confuse that feeling of relative safety
Drug Addiction Rehabilitation - Tailoring The Treatment To The Need
...treatment can be determined. There are different drug addiction rehabilitation programs designed to treat the different levels of addiction. Outpatient Treatmenr and Detox There are, at the lowest level of drug addiction rehabilitation, intervention and short duration programs, which do ...
with real happiness. People who are chronically shy,
Drug Abuse 101 - What You Absolutely Need to Know
...own health and well being and even to life. Hence late teenagers and people in early twenties are those who are most prone to it as they both have reason and accessibility for the same. Definitions Drug abuse refers to ...
for example, are addicted to safety. Alcohol and drugs
Which Addiction Treatment Programs Offer Dual Diagnosis Treatment Services
...in days of old. Redesigning addiction treatment and psychiatric services There have been attempts in recent years to address this problem by restructuring and integrating addiction treatment services and psychiatric services. One such attempt is the implementation of specialized dual ...
are common avenues to diminish pain, yet another way to achieve safety.


The Broad

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...from friendly to hostile. The paranoia produced by methamphetamine abuse results in suspiciousness, hyperactive behavior, and dramatic mood swings. Meth appeals to drug abusers because it increases the body's metabolism and produces euphoria, increases alertness, and gives the abuser a ...
Face of Addiction


We can become addicted to anything that diminishes the pain of not

Drug Addiction, Alcoholism and Dual Diagnosis in the Gay and Lesbian Community
...in the sample (Saghir, 1970; Lewis, 1982). Approximately 30% of lesbians and gay men are addicted to drugs (Rofes, 1983). The facts show that the homosexual community constitutes a high-risk population with regard to alcoholism, drug addiction and dual diagnosis. ...
feeling loved, and that includes a broad range of substances, people, feelings, and behaviors. We
Prescription Drug Addiction Statistics- Drug Abuse Hits Home
...their physical and emotional pain. Drug Abuse Among The Elderly As the Baby Boomer generation enters its retirement years, there are now more Americans over the age of sixty than ever before. Whether or not that is a factor, more ...
can become addicted to


alcohol, which gives us an obvious sensation of pleasure. More importantly, alcohol is a depressant that dulls the pain in our lives, most prominently the pain of not feeling loved. Dr. Baer relates that virtually every alcoholic he has known has resonated with the suggestion that relief of pain (safety) is the primary reason for his or her drinking. Many people also get a sensation of power

Drug Addiction or Alcoholism: Which Is Easier To Recover From?
...recover from. Some say that drug addiction is easier to recover from as alcohol is legal and more prevalent in today’s society, thus creating greater opportunity for relapse in the case of the alcoholic. The other side of this debate ...
from alcohol, because when intoxicated they feel a measure of freedom from their fears.drugs (same pleasure, power, and safety as from alcohol).sex (pleasure, praise, power).food (pleasure).gambling (pleasure, praise, power).approval (praise, power, safety).the love compulsively derived from a single person
Overcoming Addictions - Your Key to Survival!
...in the workplace, including lost productivity, accidents and medical claims to be an estimated $140 billion per year. Another fact: every eight seconds, a person dies due to a tobacco-related illness, according to the World Health Organization. Also, an estimated ...
(praise, power, pleasure, safety). Falling in love
Addiction; Desperate Maladies Require Desperate Remedies
...drugs, to the extreme point where the user has no other choice but to continue to use them. A drug addict might address his beloved drug in De Quincey s words, thou hast the keys of Paradise, oh, just, subtle, ...
usually exemplifies this.controlling others (power, praise, safety).anger (power, safety).lying (safety).shopping (praise, power).running from relationships (safety).money (praise, power, pleasure, safety).


And this is an incomplete list. When we understand addiction in light of the insights above, the incidence of addiction in our society rises to well over 90%.


]How can

Drug Abuse Treatment
...and adults to be lured into substance abuse. Many people believe that they can stop themselves before they get addicted to the substance. Most times though, intervention is needed to make them stop. And interventions are usually at a cost. ...
I treat drug addiction and other types of addiction?


When we understand that addiction is a pathologic pursuit of anything

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...result of many things including diet, alcohol consumption, smoking, hiatal hernia, stress and even pregnancy. When this refluxed acid hits the tender lining of the esophagus, it causes a painful burning sensation in the chest and, or throat. Other symptoms ...
that will reduce the pain in our lives, usually the pain of not feeling loved,
Pain Killer Addiction - Start Your Plan Of Action Now
...your body's production of endorphins, which are natural opiate pain killers; when this happens you start craving the drug that you replaced the endorphins with whether it's alcohol, any of a number of drugs or pain killers. An opioid-dependent pain ...
the treatment of drug addiction becomes apparent.


As people learn to find Real Love the single ingredient most important for happiness their wounds begin to

Understanding the Causes of Drug Addiction - The Cause and Treatment
...praise, power, pleasure, and safety. Praise In the absence of Real Love, we very much enjoy the acceptance and praise of others, and we re generally willing to do a great deal to earn it. But therein lies the problem. ...
heal. They begin to find wholeness and genuine health. As the pain in their lives diminishes and it uniformly does in the presence of Real Love they simply lose the need to fill their emptiness with Imitation Love, which includes all the objects of addiction. People most effectively let go of their addictions not by willpower but because they have no need for them anymore.


This is far more than a theory. Thousands of people have now experienced the healing power of Real Love in their lives and have then experienced the freedom of being released from the chains of their addictions.


The world is literally dying from a lack of the one thing essential for our happiness Real Love.

Prescription Drug Addiction
...teenagers. Starting young In a latest survey, children in the 12th grade reported having used prescription drugs outside their medical use. Among the drugs named, two came up as the most commonly-abused substances Vicodin and OxyContin. Adult addiction The elderly ...
We spend our entire lives trying to replace that unconditional love with praise, power, sex, money, entertainment, safety, and so on. But it never works, and the resulting emptiness and fear are almost too much to bear.


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Drug Addiction
...heralding socio-political correctness as its goal. Throughout history, a great many people and institutions have tried to help alcoholics and addicts. Currently, there are thousands of different programs in the United States trying to help those people who have a ...
people all over the world.


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